Are You a Leader

Of course, you are. We are all leading in some way. As a parent you’re leading your children, as a student you’re leading your peers and as a church member or pastor you’re called to lead others to Christ.  So you’re a leader, there’s no doubt about it, but the question is, how are you leading the people around you?

Many people seem to dislike their leaders, either they feel like they are horrible communicators with temper tantrums or think that they are too calm and unwilling to take action in the face of conflict or crisis. Often leaders are selected based on popularity or likability resulting in nice people at the helm without the experience, ability or mental acumen to lead or communicate with excellence.

Be that as it may, leadership is all about relationships and communication. You can’t dictate or lead others by force or manipulation.  One of my mentors used to say “You have to earn the right to lead.” I think there is a lot of truth in that statement. Leaders cannot simply assume that people will follow them just because they have been merely elected or assigned to a particular position.  You have to earn the right to lead. And you earn it through building relationships and effective communication. 

Leadership is a very delicate balancing act. An outstanding leader should show competencies in a variety of areas. The ability to hold others accountable while still showing care and compassion. Capacity to move an organization forward to embrace a new vision of the future, while still enabling them to celebrate the accomplishments of the past. 

To be a change agent without making changes too radically. To have the courage to speak out against injustice without speaking in an unkind or aggressive manner.  It is very challenging to lead. The leader must walk with the people along the journey while simultaneously guiding them towards their destination. 

I think that’s why Solomon prayed for wisdom, knowledge and understanding as he was getting ready to lead the nation of Israel. And God answered his prayer. He wasn't perfect but he was able to lead Israel to the pinnacle of success. Are you facing challenges in your leadership journey today? Why not pause and pray like Solomon prayed. 

Ask God to give you wisdom, knowledge and understanding today. And claim his promise in Psalm 32:9 I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go. I will guide you with my eye! If you let him instruct and guide you then you can lead with confidence knowing that your not leading alone but Christ is leading through you!